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A search online for “dating tips for men” reveals hundreds of these sorts of sites, generally requiring a credit card.Usually at the top is a picture of a smiling man, with a tag-line like “Learn the secrets that let me charm 173 women in to bed in a year”, and a short article explaining that the author, too, used to be a shy nervous virgin until he discovered the mysteries of Pick-Up Artistry.(A decent background explanation of online PUAs is here on Buzzfeed; my piece about men training to be PUAs in NYC “charm school” classes that ran in the a few years ago tells you how they behave “in the field.”) Sounds dehumanizing? It’s disturbing then, but not entirely surprising, how some PUA sites overlap with “men’s rights activist”/MRA sites — best known for being angry hornets’ nests of bitter men who rant their misogyny in any comment thread that doesn’t ban them.Although the two communities are distinct, there’s a scary amount of overlap in their attitude towards dealing with that alternate species known as women. The exact same line about spontaneity, all from different guys.It’s a new world to exploit — with fresh e Books, video tutorials, and interminable website copy interspersed with plenty of cleavage — all dedicated to figuring out the intricacies of online attraction and seduction.
I am known for my direct and crazy style of game (you can read about it on my forum) but what many don’t know is that before I had even heard of the book The Game, before I was married and divorced, I was getting laid off the internet.
Ladies are called difficult, needy, manipulate, crazy, shrill, and a whole litany of other qualities which make you wonder why these men are obsessed with the opposite sex (especially given how MRAs so revile us).
Clearly, I’ve set the stage to make my ex-boyfriend sound like a douchebag.
Hey brother, Bravo here, chances are if you are reading this page you have heard of me.
Whether it was when I was working for Neil Strauss (aka Style) for the last few years as his HEAD COACH and you are one of the thousands of men I have worked with across the world, perhaps you just finished reading The Game and after scanning some lame PUA sites found your way here, or maybe you were at a PUA SUMMIT, or Steve P.’s seminar where I taught a section of my online game program.But what PUAs actually advocate is out-and-out manipulation.